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As human beings we seek completion and wholeness; to 'find our place,' to 'make things right' and for life to be brought back into balance.
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The course of our lives is governed not only by our own experiences, but those of our family, and of the country, culture, and times within which we live. Ultimately how we perceive ourselves, what we believe is possible, and the choices we make today are influenced by a combination of these factors. Often without any conscious awareness of it, we are being directed toward the resolution of problems or patterns of relating that have run through the family line.
When someone, something, or some feeling has gone unrecognised or been disowned, it will continue to present itself for acknowledgement and integration in our lives. When we embrace what was previously hidden, and over which we have had no control, lasting change becomes a possibility.
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Family Constellations is a powerful, profound approach to dealing with life issues that goes beyond the surface to the heart of the family Soul. The process of tapping into the family system through a Constellation allows us to transform the past, precipitating a positive, domino effect through the generations; past, present, and future. It is like re-configuring the family dynamics for a more functional, loving, healthy experience, helping you to make amends, release what does not belong to you, and stand firm in your own energy and power.
Described by one client as 'Like yoga for the Soul', a Constellation transforms the CONTEXT of your life so that the CONTENT naturally unfolds in much more life-affirming ways, doing away with much of the struggle that has often characterised Personal Growth work.
While most issues can be resolved through a Constellation, you may find it helpful to:-
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take the next step in your own 'journey'.
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enhance your physical, mental, spiritual, or emotional well-being.
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separate with dignity and clear the path for a healthy new partnership.
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release the entanglements that block your happiness or financial success.
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let go of self-destructive or self-defeating thoughts, feelings, or behaviours.
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attract and experience more fulfilling relationships - at home, work, and play.
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raise your children with consciousness, confidence, and your most prized values.
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reclaim control of your life, employ appropriate boundaries and be free to choose.
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Family Constellations can be a stand-alone approach to Personal Growth, or a useful adjunct to other forms of counselling, coaching, or therapy, in either Private Sessions or a Workshop. It is also applicable in a business setting. While there will be immediate relief and clarity, it is not a quick fix, short lived solution. It can take up to two years for the full benefits of a Constellation to unfold in your life and the lives of those connected to you.
In a Constellation you step into what is called 'The Knowing Field' and experience what Science and Spirituality have come to agree on ... that WE ARE ALL ONE; WE ARE ENERGY, and WE ARE ALL CONNECTED. It is through the ownership of this connection that we can tap into the power we have to heal and renew our lives. We honour who we really are, take responsibility for the life we have lived up until now, and move forward with grace.
What happens in a Workshop?
A Family Constellations Workshop is a dynamic, experiential process. Whether you choose to have your own Constellation or to participate as a Representative, everyone in the group benefits from the opportunity to both observe the process and be an instrumental part of each others' healing.
Having chosen a specific Outcome, the participant sets up their own Constellation with the guidance of the Facilitator, calling upon members of the group to represent the people or themes relevant to their situation. As the Constellation unfolds, whatever has stood in the way from the present or past - sometimes for many generations - is revealed and responded to. With the issue transformed, the participant is free to choose a new way forward. A Family Constellations Workshop provides healing and resolution for all involved and a synchronicity that reinforces our connectedness, and inspires empathy and compassion for our common humanity.
Constellation Experiences
'When I first came to you, my relationship was falling apart and I realized that I had been attracting repetitive 'abusive patterns' in my relationships since I was a child which caused me (my heart) to literally 'shut down' emotionally which was the only way I could cope. ...
This process gave me an awareness and understanding of 'personal power' and confidence that 'you always have a choice' no matter what situation you find yourself in; and that 'no one has the right to take that from you'.
... I found myself again and know who I am; I've opened my heart and let God back in! I've taken back control and responsibility for my life and things couldn't be better.'
Elvira
Gold Coast To read all of Elvira's Success Story
'Diane helped me through some emotionally tough times. I originally went to her about a specific relationship. To my surprise she helped me with other relationships that I wasn't really aware were affecting me. I worked with her using Skype. ...
After working with Diane, family and friends were commenting to me how well I looked and that I seemed different (in a good way). I seemed a lot more relaxed and happy and much more open and it was much easier to connect on a deeper level with me.'
Glenn
Sydney NSW
'I am no longer entangled in my parent's relationship and am now on good terms with my dad.'
AND '... things have happened in my life recently, things which in context have presented themselves before, yet I respond differently. Rejection for a start! I laughed off something recently which previously would have got me down. I am not for a second questioning who I am, like I once would have, now I am actually thinking about what must be happening for the other person to respond the way they did. It's a nice change. It's the way it should be.'
Tim
Brisbane QLD
'Thank you so much for the opportunity to work with you and experience the results of the Family Constellations Process.
Initially I was unsure as to what we were going to do, how to do it and what the end result would or could be!
However, to my amazement the simplicity of it was truly amazing in its effectiveness on a deep soul level.
Yes, I was willing to go there and wanted the positive changes for myself and my family.
To this day, things are still unfolding & manifesting. I believe this work has been an integral part in the positive changes evident in my family, being seen and experienced.
Thank you Diane, thank you!' Eileen
Gold Coast
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'I have always reminded my clients that they have within them already all the answers and all the resources they need to achieve their desired Outcomes.
Systemic Family Constellations is one of the most elegant, respectful, and empowering ways I have found of accessing that information to effect positive change. In both my personal and professional life I have witnessed the freedom which comes when new ground is laid for an aliveness which may have eluded us, not only for years, but sometimes our entire lives.'
Diane
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The Origins of Systemic Family Constellations
Also known as Systemic Family Constellations, it was developed over 30 years ago by Bert Hellinger, a German Psychotherapist. It was his work as a priest amongst the Zulu people which provided the catalyst for his ongoing enquiry into the workings of family systems. There he observed that if the ancient order of the family and tribe was maintained, the individuals within the group could live with dignity and be strong and healthy. A short-term, solution-focused therapy in demand throughout Europe and more recently Australia, these principles are still relevant today for our Western way of life.
To book a Session, enrol in a Workshop, or for more information, CONTACT DIANE
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